There's a cynical bite to "She Gets Married Thrice" that's rather surprising. Normally characters start out the story at least somewhat happy or satisfied and are only forced into chaos by the encroaching conflict. But the ones in this drama are just really crabby. Much ado is made over the big wedding scene that shows up in the middle of the episode- but lead character Hyeon-soo (played by Uhm Ji-won) won't acknowledge any joy or happiness in these moments, choosing instead to behave rather indifferently.
Unfolding events seem to bear out Hyeon-soo's cynicism rather well. I found myself wondering whether, in the universe of "She Gets Married Thrice" there's anyone anywhere who can maintain a loving romantic relationship without it being ruined by...you know, I'm not sure. This episode has lots of events, flashback and present, that clearly do long-lasting damage to the relationships involved. But there's no clearly defined theme just yet.
Except, naturally, the soul-crushing cynicism. Even the drama's token child Seul-gi (played by Kim Ji-young-III) is very surly and mean. Even though her parents' divorce happened some time ago she clearly resents the entire event. Seul-gi seems to be deliberately trying to make her mom Eun-soo (played by Lee Ji-ah) feel depressed and miserable. What makes this really unsettling, though, is that in flashbacks Seul-gi just looks like a normal universally happy child- so what happened?
As of yet I'm still not sure whether this drama wants to focus on current events or what disintegrated these relationships in the past. Certainly, there's all sorts of wacky antics in the present, as adults viciously lash out at each other when more idealistic notions of loving romances clearly go awry, the result being that everyone is inconvenienced, beaten down, and in a generally bad mood. But none of this feels necessary- people can and do recover from divorce, and it doesn't have to mean the end of the world.
I suspect that in any event "She Gets Married Thrice" is aiming to be a drama about the dark side of divorce- more specifically the way it ruptures families and relationships. What's really curious is that at the same time the concept of divorce appears to be defined as being a necessary one here- certainly, it's not like the characters in this drama have any better alternatives. Better to rupture familial relationships, after all, than be trapped in a rather unpleasant marriage. As of yet the drama has offered no answers- but so far the questions too are pretty vaguely defined so all that can be done is to just wait and see.
Staff writer. Has been writing articles for HanCinema since 2012, having lived in South Korea since 2011. Started out in Gyeongju, then to Daegu, then to Ansan, then to Yeongju, then to Seoul, lived on the road for HanCinema's travel diaries series in the summer of 2016, and is currently settled in Anyang. Has good tips for utilizing South Korea's public bus system. William Schwartz can be contacted via firstname.lastname@example.org.
"[HanCinema's Drama Review] "She Gets Married Thrice" Episode 1"
by HanCinema is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-Share Alike 3.0 Unported License.
[HanCinema's Drama Review] "Answer Me 1994" Episode 8
It's still summertime. Not even a specific month either, just summertime in general, just like the,...More
[HanCinema's Drama Review] "Suspicious Housekeeper" Episode 14
Both the anti-heroine and the bad guy become more twisted this episode. Bok-nyeo is feeling pr,...More
Subscribe to HanCinema Pure to remove ads from the website (not for episode and movie videos) for US$0.99 monthly or US$7.99 yearly (you can cancel anytime). The first step is to be a member, please click here : Sign up, then a subscribe button will show up.